Day 19-2012

I am getting better at this blogging thing :-)

Today is beautiful. It is January and I am I shorts with the windows open enjoying some fresh air. I am waiting on my bestie C so we can go to brunch or maybe I'll make brunch today. Either way a good gab session always does the body good. Which is needed after watching 'the notebook' this morning. Are there any Noah's left out there? I know I am like Allie. I love whole heartily and without worrying about what others think. Is my love story out there being written without me knowing? At any given moment we all have the power to say this is or isn't how our story ends. I like to believe my story is long from over and the love part is an ever growing series of books. Some people are lucky in that they find the love of their life early. They get to spend their lives together loving, fighting, making up, laughing, crying, raising a family, going through life's trials and tribulation with a partner who loves them for their imperfect self. Others like me are also lucky. We have choices that we and only we get to choose. Different paths to follow, which are our choices without compromising. We get to go through life learning to love ourself, depend only on ourselves, do what we want to do when we want to do it, never compromising on our beliefs or wants, loving more than one person, learning to learn from our mistakes and create a better life for ourselves without having someone to lean on or depend on. Writing the stories of our lives that change from chapter to chapter and sometimes book to book. We may or may not find our one true love and that is also okay. We may eventually find our true love depending on the path we decide and if/when we do. We can say we have lived our lives, sown our wild oats. Partied with some amazing characters, visited amazing places. Loved many and finally are ready to spend our lives compromising with someone else unselfishly.

While some people have an amazing love story. Others have an amazing life story. Neither diminishes the other. Some people are extra lucky and get to have both. They don't give up one for the other, they instead intertwine both lives to have an amazingly entertaining story with twists and turns, love and hate, crying and laughing, bumps and bruises as well as amazing memories and experiences.

Never think your story is already written, because it is not. It is an ever evolving story that has yet to be completely told.