"Accept others for who they are. Don’t put limitations on those you love. Even though you may not always like the actions of your loved ones, continue to love them. They may need the extra love to turn things around ♥ ♥ ♥"
If you cannot accept others for who they are.. how can you expect anyone to accept you for you????
Think about that one!
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Friday, September 30, 2011
Thursday, September 29, 2011
Day 67
"Don’t try to be someone that you’re not. Determine who you are in the inside – your own personal likes and dislikes. Be confident in who you are. Do the best you can and don’t second guess yourself."
Trying to be someone you are not, does no good for anyone especially you. You will never be happy trying to be someone you are not. But you will be happy when you realize who you are and what you want out of life. Take some time.. stay single, go on dates by yourself. Learn to love you, imperfections and all. No one is perfect. We can strive for that, but that is exhausting. Love you for you. Do not settle for anyone who does not love you for you, and always realize when you are not being the best you, you can be. Wow that is a lot of "yous:" but without loving yourself.. how can you expect anyone else to love you?
So today.. be true to you and trust your instincts!
Trying to be someone you are not, does no good for anyone especially you. You will never be happy trying to be someone you are not. But you will be happy when you realize who you are and what you want out of life. Take some time.. stay single, go on dates by yourself. Learn to love you, imperfections and all. No one is perfect. We can strive for that, but that is exhausting. Love you for you. Do not settle for anyone who does not love you for you, and always realize when you are not being the best you, you can be. Wow that is a lot of "yous:" but without loving yourself.. how can you expect anyone else to love you?
So today.. be true to you and trust your instincts!
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Day 66
"Need a life today? Play with a child. Their giggles will make you smile and warm your heart. You will also make their day for giving them attention! So it is a win - win!"
A child's laughter will light up a room. It can make the darkest day bright. It is innocent and happy. No fake laughing, because they think they should. They laugh a real laugh and many at a time. The two girls I babysit regularly E and S make me soooooo happy. I can have a horrible day, then go see them and all is better. Their hugs, their kisses, their I love you so muches, They are the best snuggle bunnies. And their laughter. Oh their sweet sweet giggles. Those giggles could warm an iceberg to melt. So if you are feeling down. Take the time to play with your kids, or find a friend with kids. The kids LOVE the attention. Last night E not only told me I looked 23 (love that kid) but she also said "Miss J I love you so much. You make me happy. I love that you sit and talk with me and play games with me and well just love me." I love that she knows this. Anytime I say something like " You think I love you" I get told " I know you do" I love that I can joke with them and they still know I love them more than the moon and stars. I am lucky their mom loves me enough to let me have this time with them. Kids love attention just like adults do. We adults need to take time with them. They will be adults soon enough and unless they learn how from us. They will flounder. People call me Mary Poppins, but I think all it is, is that I treat their kids like people, not second class citizens. I talk with them, play with them feed them and love them. Because each child has so much to offer the world. Sometimes we jsut need to stop and pay attention to them
So moral for today. Feel sad, blue or just not yourself? Make a child laugh for just 10 mins and your entire day will change
Happy Hump day!
A child's laughter will light up a room. It can make the darkest day bright. It is innocent and happy. No fake laughing, because they think they should. They laugh a real laugh and many at a time. The two girls I babysit regularly E and S make me soooooo happy. I can have a horrible day, then go see them and all is better. Their hugs, their kisses, their I love you so muches, They are the best snuggle bunnies. And their laughter. Oh their sweet sweet giggles. Those giggles could warm an iceberg to melt. So if you are feeling down. Take the time to play with your kids, or find a friend with kids. The kids LOVE the attention. Last night E not only told me I looked 23 (love that kid) but she also said "Miss J I love you so much. You make me happy. I love that you sit and talk with me and play games with me and well just love me." I love that she knows this. Anytime I say something like " You think I love you" I get told " I know you do" I love that I can joke with them and they still know I love them more than the moon and stars. I am lucky their mom loves me enough to let me have this time with them. Kids love attention just like adults do. We adults need to take time with them. They will be adults soon enough and unless they learn how from us. They will flounder. People call me Mary Poppins, but I think all it is, is that I treat their kids like people, not second class citizens. I talk with them, play with them feed them and love them. Because each child has so much to offer the world. Sometimes we jsut need to stop and pay attention to them
So moral for today. Feel sad, blue or just not yourself? Make a child laugh for just 10 mins and your entire day will change
Happy Hump day!
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Day 65
"The desire for change shows up in your body as well as your thoughts. Pay attention to it and go with it. Sometimes change is exactly what you need to become a better you!"
You desire change before you even realize you desire it. I knew that I wanted to end things with Grumpy way before I took action. I knew I wanted to lose weight, way before I took action. I knew i wanted to run a 5k way before I took action. The list goes on, but the fact that I knew in all of these cases that I wanted to make a change, but was just too lazy to make the change. Sometimes we are our own worst enemy. I was too lazy to clean the house, too lazy to break off a bad relationship, too l lazy to work out, too lazy to date outside my little area, too lazy to eat better.. see the list keeps going. So once I realized i was just being a lazy terd.. things got easier.. I let the change happen. There was no bad breakup.. it just came and went. I did not have to work too hard to make it a daily habit to work out, It came easy not drink alcohol, i just chose not too, fruit instead of fries? now that one was hard.. but some days I win that battle. SOME DAYS!
so moral of today's thought. Listen to yourself. Let yourself guide you to who you need to be. If you need to stop doing something to be a better person, do it. What are you waiting for? We only get one shot at this life. Minus well live it up and be all that you can be and more! You never know until you try and if it comes easy.. it usually is too good to be true.. Work hard and enjoy the results. You will appreciate them more
Ciao
You desire change before you even realize you desire it. I knew that I wanted to end things with Grumpy way before I took action. I knew I wanted to lose weight, way before I took action. I knew i wanted to run a 5k way before I took action. The list goes on, but the fact that I knew in all of these cases that I wanted to make a change, but was just too lazy to make the change. Sometimes we are our own worst enemy. I was too lazy to clean the house, too lazy to break off a bad relationship, too l lazy to work out, too lazy to date outside my little area, too lazy to eat better.. see the list keeps going. So once I realized i was just being a lazy terd.. things got easier.. I let the change happen. There was no bad breakup.. it just came and went. I did not have to work too hard to make it a daily habit to work out, It came easy not drink alcohol, i just chose not too, fruit instead of fries? now that one was hard.. but some days I win that battle. SOME DAYS!
so moral of today's thought. Listen to yourself. Let yourself guide you to who you need to be. If you need to stop doing something to be a better person, do it. What are you waiting for? We only get one shot at this life. Minus well live it up and be all that you can be and more! You never know until you try and if it comes easy.. it usually is too good to be true.. Work hard and enjoy the results. You will appreciate them more
Ciao
Monday, September 26, 2011
Day 64
"Making real, lasting change is like plowing a path. The more you use the new path, the easier it gets. So make that change and do not give up! Hard work does pay off eventually :)"
This speaks volumes to me. Every day I have a choice. I can continue on this new very difficult path i am on, or i can revert back to my old self. This new path (well not so new now) but new path began over a year ago. I stopped drinking, I started working out and I started watching what I ate. This is by no means a "diet" I made a lifestyle change and lost over 40 pounds and am sooo fit!. Now was this hard. HELL YEAH it was. Not only do you have your own self telling you, that you can take a day off from working out.. but you have so called friends who want you to drink, or insist you try their yummy super fattening cake that you have no desire to eat or to "just have one beer. It won't kill you. Do you really need to work out today? You look fine." No i do not need your food/drinks and yes I need to work out.
Any change you make even small will be difficult. I have always been one up for a challenge so this past year, though extremely difficult, the results are amazing and I am so happy to know that I can do anything I set my mind too. I have changed myself physically and emotionally. I am a happy girl through me. I no longer rely on others to make me happy, I no longer feel that I deserve something that someone else has. I am happy with the cards that were dealt to me. Some days i do wish I had someone to share my life with, as it is fairly awesome, but I do not dwell on that. That person will come along at the right moment. It must be the right moment for us both.
So get out there make your change.. whatever it may be and do not give up when the going gets tough, push through and remember only YOU can make YOU whole and happy!
Good Luck!
This speaks volumes to me. Every day I have a choice. I can continue on this new very difficult path i am on, or i can revert back to my old self. This new path (well not so new now) but new path began over a year ago. I stopped drinking, I started working out and I started watching what I ate. This is by no means a "diet" I made a lifestyle change and lost over 40 pounds and am sooo fit!. Now was this hard. HELL YEAH it was. Not only do you have your own self telling you, that you can take a day off from working out.. but you have so called friends who want you to drink, or insist you try their yummy super fattening cake that you have no desire to eat or to "just have one beer. It won't kill you. Do you really need to work out today? You look fine." No i do not need your food/drinks and yes I need to work out.
Any change you make even small will be difficult. I have always been one up for a challenge so this past year, though extremely difficult, the results are amazing and I am so happy to know that I can do anything I set my mind too. I have changed myself physically and emotionally. I am a happy girl through me. I no longer rely on others to make me happy, I no longer feel that I deserve something that someone else has. I am happy with the cards that were dealt to me. Some days i do wish I had someone to share my life with, as it is fairly awesome, but I do not dwell on that. That person will come along at the right moment. It must be the right moment for us both.
So get out there make your change.. whatever it may be and do not give up when the going gets tough, push through and remember only YOU can make YOU whole and happy!
Good Luck!
Friday, September 23, 2011
Day 63
Today I took a quote from Marilyn Monroe with a little added bonus from moi :)
'“Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.”
I hope everyone will be the best version of YOURSELVES today! Happy Friday!'
No matter who you are you should always strive to be the best version of you! I may be all giggly and loud one day because i am ridiculously happy about something. But that is me. I am loud, loving, giggly, overbearing at times, moody at times, ridiculously in love at times, happy most days, sad sometimes, always working to improve myself. Every day is a new day to be a better version of me. I am imperfect and sometimes obsessed with writing, but I have never in my life been accused of being boring. I love life, I love the experiences it brings.. the good and the bad. The constant battle of what I want to do and what I should do. The always constant move of life and the roller coaster it is. Ahhh roller coasters.. i miss riding on those. I cannot wait for the fair. I hope someone will go with me.. oh see and I am random.. I have random thoughts that fill random spaces. I am a hot mess and I love it. I love that my life is not boring and I constant challenge myself. I love that my friends love my thoughts for the day, whether they are my own or borrowed from someone else. I love that people love me for the hot mess I am. YAY for having good parents that raised me to be the hot mess I am :) I also added later today.. bc it was fitting
"I ♥ pictures, because they never change even when the people in them do! You can always look back and remember when :) That makes me smile!"
That says it all for itself :)
'“Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.”
I hope everyone will be the best version of YOURSELVES today! Happy Friday!'
No matter who you are you should always strive to be the best version of you! I may be all giggly and loud one day because i am ridiculously happy about something. But that is me. I am loud, loving, giggly, overbearing at times, moody at times, ridiculously in love at times, happy most days, sad sometimes, always working to improve myself. Every day is a new day to be a better version of me. I am imperfect and sometimes obsessed with writing, but I have never in my life been accused of being boring. I love life, I love the experiences it brings.. the good and the bad. The constant battle of what I want to do and what I should do. The always constant move of life and the roller coaster it is. Ahhh roller coasters.. i miss riding on those. I cannot wait for the fair. I hope someone will go with me.. oh see and I am random.. I have random thoughts that fill random spaces. I am a hot mess and I love it. I love that my life is not boring and I constant challenge myself. I love that my friends love my thoughts for the day, whether they are my own or borrowed from someone else. I love that people love me for the hot mess I am. YAY for having good parents that raised me to be the hot mess I am :) I also added later today.. bc it was fitting
"I ♥ pictures, because they never change even when the people in them do! You can always look back and remember when :) That makes me smile!"
That says it all for itself :)
Thursday, September 22, 2011
Day 62
Someone told me I needed to start writing about my thoughts of the day
Todays is: Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
I may be the girl that you do not always see get what you see, but I will always tell you the truth
I am one who would rather ask forgiveness than permission, though in relationship I am all about the communication. I think a key element of why the last relationship didnt work is he thought I was his mom. That he had to hide things. I never want anyone to feel like they cannot tell me something about them. It is funny, I am the one everyone comes to with their secrets. Everyone but the person who said he loved me the most. Kinda sad but so grateful I had the lessons I did for the relationship. I think everyone takes things away. I remember fireman.. goodness 13 years old and jealous jealous jealous.. why be jealous? That is silly just be happy with you and all else will fall into place.
Communication is key. to an relationship
You cannot make someone love you or their self
I love who I am.. if you do not love me for my faults and all..you can leave
I am silly I am loveable I am sometimes moody but I always mean well
Life is good!
Also had a fun night with J. I cannot wait for her little bundle of joy to get here. I love all the laughs we share. She is one amazing lady!
Every exciting weekend. D will be in town and the goonies is playing under the bridge. YAY super excited
Todays is: Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
I may be the girl that you do not always see get what you see, but I will always tell you the truth
I am one who would rather ask forgiveness than permission, though in relationship I am all about the communication. I think a key element of why the last relationship didnt work is he thought I was his mom. That he had to hide things. I never want anyone to feel like they cannot tell me something about them. It is funny, I am the one everyone comes to with their secrets. Everyone but the person who said he loved me the most. Kinda sad but so grateful I had the lessons I did for the relationship. I think everyone takes things away. I remember fireman.. goodness 13 years old and jealous jealous jealous.. why be jealous? That is silly just be happy with you and all else will fall into place.
Communication is key. to an relationship
You cannot make someone love you or their self
I love who I am.. if you do not love me for my faults and all..you can leave
I am silly I am loveable I am sometimes moody but I always mean well
Life is good!
Also had a fun night with J. I cannot wait for her little bundle of joy to get here. I love all the laughs we share. She is one amazing lady!
Every exciting weekend. D will be in town and the goonies is playing under the bridge. YAY super excited
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