Post 9 - 2014 Give and Take

Lately I have done a little of giving and less taking. I have taken the higher road in arguments, have tried to be as unselfish as I can, tried to look at things from someone elses perspective, and tried not to get irritated if something doesn't go my way. Thinking this way has opened me up to a whole new world. I am less angry and irritated.  I no longer look at things as "Mine and theirs", or "That's not my job"  I think about the greater good and less about what i will get in return. I am happy. I do not mind being the one that cleans the house, cooks, and takes care of the baby. I do not mind if I have to work longer hours, or volunteer an extra shift. I do  not mind if someone is short a few bucks and needs a spot. I am living to make the world a better place. When I do this and keep this attitude, life is amazing, If I let negative thoughts slip in, then life is not so amazing. I like amazing!  I love helping others even if I do not get a thank you in return. I want to show my son what it means to be happy, and that only YOU can make you happy regardless of your circumstances.   My life could be a lot worse. I have it really good. Even the poorest in America have it better than 3rd world countries. We have access to food and medical treatments even if we do not have a home. We do not have to have MANY children in hopes one will make it and bring us out of poverty. Life is good, life is give and take. Try giving more and taking less. Try being happy with what you have. Let go of expectations and just be happy!