Post 99, 2013 Walking away

"Feeling bad vibes from a situation or person? Give yourself permission to walk away. No explanation is needed, just trust yourself and what you are feeling. 9 times out of ten (and usually 10 out of 10) you will not be wrong and might just save yourself some heartache or something worse!"  Moi

I have written on something similar to this before but, if you get a bad vibe, walk away. It doesn't matter if it is a party, an interview, or a person, walk away. If you get a bad vibe every time you hang out with someone, do not hang out with them anymore, no explanation is needed, just "sorry I cannot I am busy". They will eventually move on.  If it is a situation, get out of it as soon as there is a way too. You never know what could happen and you are better safe then sorry by walking away. I remember once going in for an interview and I saw a very familiar Rhino head, which is the logo for a pyramid scheme I fell for once. I went up to the receptionist and said, " I am sorry, I am not going to be able to interview, I am sorry for wasting your bosses time, have a great day," and left. I should have trusted my bad vibe before every going in there, but once I saw that I knew I needed to leave, they have a way of sucking you in and I did not want to be apart of that again. I have gone to parties or clubs before where I just got a bad feeling, I left without saying anything, and sure enough every time, after I find out something bad went down. I could have been caught up in that and luckily i was not.   My ex, there was something always off but I just attributed that to me being scared, as I am always scared. I was wrong and should have trusted that feeling as he turned out to be a bad bad person. He put on a great front and I think wanted to be a good person, but he just does not know how not to be a bad selfish person. I would have saved myself a lot of heartache and a lot of money had I just walked away when i had the chance. 

So the moral today is walk away. Doesn't matter what the situation is, if you have a bad feeling, walk away. It really will save you in the long run!