Living without trust is like living in constant torment. Without trust there is no love (with yourself or with others). You must be able to trust in order to be in a relationship with someone, whether it is at work, with friends or in love. Trust is the foundation of ALL relationships, even the one you have with yourself.
I see so many people who say they forgive someone for a past mistake, yet they do not let go (see yesterdays post) so they do not trust the person. If you do not trust someone, you cannot truly love them. You are always looking over your shoulder and trying to control them. They are miserable, because really who wants to live like that? Being condemned over and over again for your past mistake. You must learn to trust them or let them go.
Trust also applies to you. trust yourself and your intuition. That feeling you get when something bad is going to happen... trust it.. learn to see the signs. Trust is important in all aspects of live.
I have a friend who is amazing at this. Her husband cheated on her. It was a bad bad break up. They both tried to move on and they realized they loved each other too much to be with others. She forgave him, truly forgave him and they were eventually re-married. The trust is back, as she forgave him and looked to their future together instead of reliving the past. Truly remarkable and an inspiration to many!
Trust or let go.. but without trust there cannot be love. Trust is truly the foundation of relationships!!!
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