Love is a condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own. When you love someone (friend/family/partner), you want to do things to make them happy, as in return it makes you happy. You do not do them because you have too, you do it because you want too.
This was cause for an argument this weekend. I did B's laundry, cooked him dinner (that he didn't eat) and a whole bunch of other stuff, because he was dog dead tired and I knew it needed to be done. I did not get a thank you, I got a "I could have done it myself, it was my responsibility" okay.. you are right, but i wanted too, because I wanted to make you happy, like you bought stuff to make me my fave dessert.
He doesn't get it, he is so independent, he is having a hard time, letting someone in. I know he loves me, I never had any doubts about us, until this week. This week he told me he has doubts (first I heard of this) then he leaves for work out of town for a week. YAY! That helps me feel loved. I guess the honeymoon phase is over. life is not all peaches and rainbows, people fight when they care about someone else, and that sometimes people do nice things just because they love the other person. Life is never easy, but I would not enjoy life if it were easy and all rainbows and such.
I will continue to be happy, and to try to make others happy. As someone else's mood does not effect mine. I control me. Either you want to be around me or you do not. Either way, my life goes on.. and it goes on in a very happy way :)
Today I challenge you to do something just to make someone else happy!
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