Day 7 - 2012

"Life is unbelievably brief. Stop long enough to appreciate each day and what that day may bring (good or bad)!"

In the past week, I have heard about many people passing away.  Makes you think about how short life is. Life is this roller coaster, we all know it.. and if you do not, then pay attention.  Each day, week, year you have highs and lows.  Some are LARGE is scale and some are a little less large.  Sometimes the roller coaster is fun, sometimes scary and sometimes you just want the EFF off!  But try not to jump off too soon!

Be thankful of those who are good to you and tell them how much they mean, every chance you get.  You never know when you might not get the chance to tell them again.

On a lighter note.. cannot wait to watch the two powerhouse teams go against each other tonight!  BAMA vs LSU WHOO HOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO  Southern football at it's finest!  Cannot wait to see who comes out as #1

Day 6 -2012

Be open minded is my mantra lately. I think that everyone has a story and if I do not know that story then I have no right to judge. Now that doesn't mean I may not still make fun of you for my amusement. You may say this makes me a bad person. I say it's all in good fun. I make fun of myself just as much.

Tonight I had a fun date. Where we picked on each other ourselves and others. We went to multiple places and just laughed. And he kissed me at the perfect moment on the sidewalk with stars up above. It was a date out of an old movie. I felt like Audrey Hepburn His communication skills are superb. He is kind and fun and very handsome. And he made plans for tomorrow. Love it when someone knows what they want and goes after it. Dating in my 30's has not been fun. This was one of the better dates. So yay for a great day. The date was good. self defense class was fun and informative, and I go to see my H girls and some random girls and gay guy in tr bathroom said my outfit tonight was amazing. Hello I know I'm stylish! It was cute. Grey and white stripped shirt, scarf, jeans and Red boots. Love my boots

Ok. So sleepy night night!

day 5 - 2012

"Choose quality over quantity in regards to friends. One AMAZING friend is worth ten million bad ones! Weed out the bad and cherish the good! Happy Thursday Y'all!"


Okay so this is similar to yesterday's post, but really has been heavy on my mind.  We all are busy so it is extremely important that you choose who you spend your free time with wisely.  The wrong friends will send you down a bumpy path, where the right friends will either steer you to a smoother path or at least be there for the ride down the bumpy path.  The wrong friends will leave you in a heart beat.  They are only there for fun or because they are using you for something else and once those reasons are gone.. so are they.  Stick with the people who will love you when you are happy or sad.. rich or poor.  Stick with those people who love you unconditionally and who give just as much to you as you give to them.  Friendships are relationships that need to be tended too and cherished.  If one person is always giving more than the other, then the friendship will not last.  It has to be 50/50  sometimes it will be 20/80 or 80/20 but that is life.  Steer clear from those that are you always giving more too.  They are just using you and you need to cut them out of your life. 

Tell your friends how much you care..reach out to them let them know you love them.  Never take anyone for granted, if you do they may not be in your life for long.  Make sure you are not the one being weeded out by always treating others the way you want to be treated.

Today's post was easy!  I love my friends and am not shy to show it

Day 4 - 2012

"Lot's of people will ride with you in the Limo but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the Limo breaks down." Oprah Winfrey

So my friend A sent that to me today.. which was amazing because I did not have to think and I LOVE that quote!

I am all about QUALITY and not QUANTITY.. now if you see how many FaceBook friends I have you may say "bullshit" under your breath, but really I do not put anything out there that shouldn't be seen so I am ok with having a lot of acquaintances. Plus I like the ease of getting a hold of people.  I do not have to track down their info.  However, the people I share my inner most thoughts and my normal self are few and far between. 

I would much rather have friends who are there for me then have a bunch who are not.  One loyal awesome friend is worth one million bad friends... I would take one good one any day over many. 

I  love knowing that if I need one of my real friends, I just have to call.  Sometimes I do not even have to do that, they just know I need help and help.  I LOVE LOVE LOVE That!  I love that I have some truly amazing people in my life and I hope you do too.  If you do not, start looking at the quality of your friends, weed out the bad and hang on tight to the good!  The good will outlast the bad  hands down!

Day 3 - 2012

Ok so i was trying to take a sabbatical from my thoughts of the day.. but that is not working out so well.  Apparently people do like them :)  and who am I to deny people what they want!


"If something is out of your control, why fret about it? Concentrate on things you can control so you can make good things happen!"


This one is hard for me.  I struggle with it daily.  Yes another one i struggle with (I struggle with a lot).  I know I am not perfect!  I never claimed to be.  I am just a girl trying to make the best of this crazy world.  This world seems to get crazier and crazier.  It is chaotic and hard to figure out what you should worry about or not.   I try to make choices to control my attitude as I should be able to control that right?  haha not so easy.  Most of the time I react.. then realize i am reacting and i should stop but I am already in mid thought so I do not.  I must work harder on this. As i can control me.. or I should be able too.  I feel like a hot mess daily.  I embrace that hot messiness, but some days wonder if anyone out there feels this way too or if it is just me.  I want to not talk about it, but what if others are suffering the same ailments I am?  One day at a time right?  


Well today ended with me still smiling so I will take that as a win!


Time to work out and get some good endorphin's going!

Day 2 - 2012

Today has been a day of seeing my hard work pay off and realizing I do not like owning a house. It's expensive and a lot of work. I also realized that I have it pretty good and I really would not be a good blue collar worker. I would suck actually, my back hurts my muscles ache. I rock don't get me wrong but I feel like my house should be pretty and spotless and in reality I really need a weeks worth of only dedicating my time to cleaning this house. I have so much left to do. So much to throw away. But I am making progress. And progress matters!

Day 1 - 2012

First day of the year and guess what I did? I pulled up carpet in my room and went to Dave and busters with SB and the kids. Lots of fun even though everyone was tired.

Here's to an amazing 2012!!!!!